Aurelian Silence : Senecan Serenity

"Let us converse on this matter at hand,
Of how best to respond when others offend.
Shall we return barb for barb, in a manner unplanned?
Or rise above, our dignity to defend?"

"To answer in kind seems justified, it is true,
When disrespect and discourtesy come our way.
But in doing so, are we not sinking down to their level too?
Does retaliation help, or does it lead astray?"

"The temptation for vengeance can be incredibly strong,
When we're hurting from words that cut deep and sting.
But to inflict more pain rarely rights a wrong,
And often just creates a vicious circling."

"So what if instead we stayed steady and calm,
Keeping composure though shaken inside?
Could we withstand the storm of malice and harm,
By stilling our ego and quelling our pride?"  

"At times it may cost us greatly to take the high road,
When offense comes not once but time and again.
Our nature rebels against such a difficult load,
Wanting to strike back and cause them similar pain."

"But the philospophers Aurelius and Seneca wrote,
That the best revenge is no revenge at all.
Responding to rudeness with our own rude stroke,
Just proves to them their actions were justified overall."

"So let us be cautious in what we return,
To those who slight us with discourteous intent.
The higher path is there if we care to discern,
Rewarding with wisdom those trials we've been sent."

"With patience and grace we can end the cycle of spite,
That causes both parties to suffer and seethe.
If we remain steady through their provoking and slight,
Our character is strengthened and virtue increased."  

"The sages remind us - when cursed stay silent,
Lest angry words escalate needless strife.
Be firm yet serene, in control, vigilant,
Mastering oneself to handle this life."




















   The poem is part of a full version found in the book “Homo Sapiens” Part Part I - XVIII, written by Mawphniang Napoleon. This book is part of the popular “Homo Sapiens” book series, which can be purchased online at various online bookstores, such as Amazon. The book is available for purchase for those who are interested in reading the complete version of the poem. Remember to get all the books from the “Homo Sapiens” series, as well as other books by the same author.   So, don’t hesitate and get a copy today from one of the many online bookstores.   Khublei Shihajar Nguh,  (Dhanewad  )(Thank you )