Growing a worthy man from a boy

I must have wronged raising my son!
Given he values nothing of
What's been given.
Treating all gestures of kindness
As though they were owed
While believing nothing is owed
To those who're giving.
Why does he feel crippled
Trying anything new
Or has all constructive criticism
Get drowned by attitude.
Pouring blood, sweat and tears into raising him
Feels so wrong
Eventhough intended to make him better.
How do I make my son feel that he is strong,
When he gets blown off course
By any inclimate weather
How can he value anything that he owns
If it all feels gained
By lifting a feather.
A parent is not permitted to think
All stones were unturned.
As objectively, it is known
Only end results matter.
I suppose it's impossible
To grow a worthy man from a boy
By serving him all on a silver platter.